| You’ve heard how small things can be | | | | Do not hesitate in extending your hand. |
| tremendously important; well a simple handshake | | | | Regardless of gender, shaking hands is the |
| is one such example. Such a small thing but | | | | acceptable greeting and should be done again |
| potentially so very powerful! Like it or not, an | | | | when you say good-bye. If you extend your hand |
| improper handshake will most likely leave a | | | | and the other person doesn’t offer their hand |
| negative impression. A correct handshake can | | | | in return, just withdraw yours and assume they |
| certainly be to your advantage both in your | | | | didn’t see your gesture. If you think your |
| working and social worlds. | | | | hand might feel wet or “clammy,” take a |
| For both men and women a good handshake is | | | | quick, inconspicuous swipe to your pants or skirt. |
| firm, connecting the space between your thumb | | | | If you are in a social setting, for instance at a |
| and forefinger with the same space of the hand | | | | cocktail party, hold your drink in your left hand so |
| you are shaking. Be sure not to grab just the | | | | your right will remain both warm and dry. |
| fingertips. As well, make sure you don’t bend | | | | If you are unsure whether or not your handshake |
| your hand and extend just your fingertips. Fully | | | | is what it should be, practice with a family |
| connect and shake, once or twice, using a gentle | | | | member or friend and ask for their input. It may |
| up and down motion from the elbow. Be mindful | | | | feel silly, but a skill you will have all your life is |
| not to squeeze too hard or shake too long. | | | | definitely worth getting right. |